posix-udp.c: now dropping all unsolicited EB packets (also from broadcast IP) to avoid stream corruption, bumped tiny version

changed eb_posix_udp_poll to drop frames with different IPs on request/response after subnet masking

There was a bug where sdb_find_by_identity would be exported by
glue/cplusplus.cpp, but the type might not match the header,
depending on the value of EB_STATUS_OR_VOID_T.

Fixing this requires making the method inline. However, that removes
the symbol from the library, which is a breaking change to the ABI
for C++. The API remains compatible, however.