api: begin EB software refactoring (breaks API/ABI compat)

add blocking interface via magical "eb_block" callback
  => causes close to block until complete and return status
  make blocking the default for C++ API
add format pretty-printer helper functions:
  eb_width_data, eb_width_address, eb_format_data, eb_format_endian
add matching parser functions:
  eb_width_parse_address, eb_width_parse_data
use long for delays (int is too short on some platforms)
remove eb_device_flush
  => for now hack around lack of write flow control
add convenience methods eb_device_{read,write}